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How to Get Your Ex Back

How to get your ex back? Couples separate all the time, but this doesn’t mean it has to be the end for good. If you’ve been going through a break-up and you want to try to get your ex back, this is the guide for you. Just don’t become a stalker. This will tell you how to reel your ex back in and hopefully make them yours again. But there are a few things you need to look at first, to decide if this is a good idea or not.

How to get your ex back? Consider why you broke up in the first place

Before you think about getting your ex back, you need to consider if this is a good idea. What was the reason that you broke up? If there was cheating or even some kind of abuse going on, then the relationship is probably left in the past. Some relationships can be saved but some simply cannot. Decide if you want your ex back for the right reasons and if not, perhaps it’s time to say goodbye for good.

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Give Them Space

Once you know you want your ex back, it’s time to start on the plan of action. The first step to the plan is to give them space. If you are continually hounding your ex right after the breakup, this is going to push them away even further more. Focus on yourself for a little while, going out with friends and doing other hobbies that make you happy. A makeover is always good after a breakup so whether you get a new hairstyle or buy yourself new clothes, concentrate on you at least for a few weeks. This stage is really important because it will put you in a better mind frame and have you feeling like yourself again.

 How to Get Your Ex Back

How to Get Your Ex Back

Remind Them What They Loved About You

After a short amount of time has passed, it’s time to get in touch with your ex again subtly. This could involve “accidentally” running into them at a place where you know he/she will be or going to get the stuff that you left at their apartment. As a relationship progresses, it’s natural that you lose some of that spark that you had at the beginning of the relationship.

It’s important to show them that personality trait that they used to love. Whether that be your sense of humor, your intelligence or something else, it goes without saying that you could, of course, make sure you look amazing when you see them for the first time after the breakup. This gives you the best chance of getting your ex back.

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How to get your ex back? Keep it cool

It’s important that your ex thinks you have moved on, at least to a certain degree. You want to keep it cool when you run into them, definitely don’t tell them you miss them or want them back, but at the same time, you should be friendly. You might want to casually drop into the conversation what you’ve been up to. Lately, this might gently make them a little jealous about how you are having fun without him/her.

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Start Hanging Out Again

Hopefully, you are now at the stage to start seeing your ex again, as a friend at first. Take things slowly but have a good time together hanging out as friends, it might get to the stage as to what it was like when you first started having an interest in each other. Things should progress nicely from here, and hopefully, sparks will be flying as they realize how much they miss you.

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If you have been wondering how to get your ex back? The steps described in this article is how you should go about it. With things working out correctly, you have the chance again to build a fantastic relationship together. Please keep in mind however that sometimes not everything goes to plan. Some people are not meant to be, and if that is the case, you need to move on respectfully.

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Rene Peters
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